Saturday, January 12, 2013

Chennai Ahoy!

Ch - en - nai!! 

Yes,  this is where I live as I write type this post today. Many friends shared their views on the city when they came to know that I would be/ am living here. Here are some of the most amazing things people had to say.


  • Being in Chennai is like saja-e-kalapani ( saja: punishment, Kalapani: a colonial era prison in India)
  • In Chennai, its either hot, hotter or hottest (with reference to the climate :P)
  • You will forget Hindi and begin speaking Tamil ( Credits: Stephen from A Solitary Writer. :D )
  • Intolerable humidity
  • Hours without electricity due to frequent power cuts 
  • In Chennai you don't get wet, you only sweat ( big LOL for this!!)
Huh!! So you can very well imagine/understand how skeptical I was about shifting/living here before I actually did ;) All said and done, its almost been 10 days here and believe me when I say, all my friends were TRUE but only partially! 


Now let me quash and put to rest all the myths that people have about this city. So here we go.

  • Saja-e-kalapani: 10 days is too early to comment on this one ;) :P
  • Chennai IS hot. If the winter temperature can go up to 30 degree Centigrade, then image what summers will be like!! I already imagine roasted chicken walking on Chennai roads this summer :D 
  • I never understand the language these auto-rickshaw walas here speak. Somebody said, "Tamil teri maa" and my North-Indian friends almost broke into a fight with him until somebody intervened, "Tamil teri maa means do you know Tamil?" :P  (For all those who din't get the joke here, "teri maa.." is used as a slang in North India. :D )
  • Humidity?? All's well as of now. Living in air-conditioned rooms does have its merits. :)
  • Power cuts are rampant. One has to get accustomed to 2 hours of power cut each day. Also, once every week or month there is power cut for 24 hours at a stretch. :O  Lord have mercy! Lord have mercy!
  • There is a shortage of water in Chennai but nobody I know of has had problems due to this. Most houses store water. The rest can be concluded from views above. :) 
I haven't been to the beaches which Chennai has many. To survive in Chennai one needs friends, and loads of them to have fun together. I have made a few and God is kind. Life has been good so far. Hoping to make the most of the rest of it. 

Much Love. Thanks for reading :)




Thursday, December 20, 2012


 
Dear Faith,

I have gone through a lot in the past few months. Well, Life likes to teach us lessons and I seem to be one of Life’s favorite pupils. J

There have been times when I felt low, when I thought there was nothing left in life to look up to. I appreciate the way you handled me then. Thanks for reminding me each day that “Nothing in life is permanent”, and that “This too shall pass”.

Thanks for proving to me, in your own tiny ways that “Every cloud has a silver lining”. You told me how everything happens for one’s own good. You calmed me when I refused to listen and made me wiser with each passing day.

Remember the day we went for “Life of Pie”?  I felt really good after watching it. I could somehow connect. I felt I was Pie and this phase of life was akin to his journey across the Pacific. I felt happy thinking that in the end, I too would survive.

Pie and I had another thing in common, and that is you! This is when my belief in you grew stronger than ever and I decided to never let you go.

Thanks for being by my side forever, for becoming stronger with each challenge that Life throws at me. You are a man’s best friend, and I shall keep Faith for-ever!

 -Love, me
 
Linked to: Theme-Thursday  Prompt: Faith
Picture Courtesy: Mrsupole of Theme Thursday
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Welcome to the Future


It has been a tortuous climb. Thank God I could make it here! Yes, I believe in God, and its a good thing to believe in something, someone, somebody..it gives you hope. It makes you last, its makes you fight..until the victory is yours.

That was some insightful into the life I had been leading in the last few months. That very much explains my absence too. Thankfully its all over now and thoughts are streaming out of my mind as (best) they once did!

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I met this guy at an interview the other day. He too happened to be a software engineer but had no technical knowledge. He was the kind of engineer who never attended classes in college and cleared semester exams with marginal marks, thanks to last minute studies. This was not surprising because more than 60% of the software engineers I have met till now belong to the same category. (More on this in future post/s)

What I actually found surprising was the fellows views on corruption and bribery. Well here was a young 20-something guy, the so-called "future" of my beloved India proclaiming quiet confidently that corruption was his birthright! All that he aimed for in life was a government job, not because he wanted to serve the country but because he all he wanted to do in the name of work was play cards.

"Paisa kamaana hai, par mehnat nai karni.. (I want to earn money but do not want to work hard)", said he with a sombre looking face. "Ek baar sarkari naukri lag jaaye bas...fir to table k upar taash aur niche paiso ki gaddi...(Once I get a government job, It will be cards above the table and money under it)", he added.

To speak the least, his thoughts left me aghast! Where is my country headed?! His thoughts worried me and his views left me perplexed. My bubble of belief that I belonged to an anti-corruption generation was suddenly burst, and how! 

The fact that he had already cleared first 2 rounds of the Staff Selection Commission exams and was waiting for the final interview scared me. What if he succeeded in his endeavors? What if he became a Central Excise Inspector, and Income Tax or a CBI Inspector?? I shuddered at the thought.

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This meeting has really got me thinking. I wonder how many more youths like him must exist. I then tried to trace the roots of this mentality that the guy so strongly adhered to. My search ended at his family. The fellow's father happened to be an officer at State Bank of India, a government body. According to him, his father had no much work at office and received innumerable free facilities from the government. Many of his relatives had government jobs too. So naturally conversation in the family always revolved around government jobs, which aunt took the highest amount as bribe, how a certain uncle had become a crorepati thanks to corruption, which cousin had no work pressure at office and lived a life of luxury, so on and so forth.

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I love my country. I am worried.

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

yaaY its souP, possiblY!!


My earliest soup memory goes back to when I was almost five. We had gone out for dinner and mum ordered tomato soup. She said it would work as an appetizer. Everything went fine until the next morning.

Dad and I were standing by the sink brushing our teeth. Suddenly the muscles of my stomach stiffened, the toothbrush stopped in my mouth, I bent over and the next thing I knew the entire sink was full of the tomato soup!  The brick red liquid was dripping down my toothbrush.

Since then I avoid ordering tomato soup at restaurants. J

Written for Theme Thursday



3 and 3
are 2 women, the 2nd itching the 1st one's back!

3 and 3
are lovers, He making up to Her.

3 and 3
are Martha's tiny hairclips, left on the floor.

3 and 3
are twins, happily co-existing.

3 and 3
are a cartoon's ears, lost and found here!

3 and 3
are 6, 9, 8 and 33.

I say 3 and 3
'coz possibilities have no decree!

For Theme Thursday


 

Thursday, November 08, 2012

...& all that


I am broken. My wounds sore. I can’t fight you anymore.

You proved me wrong
whenever I took a decision
and tried to move on.

 Why do they say
"live to the fullest” when
all we have to do each day is compromise?

These dreams are mine,
I cherish them!
Who then are you to come in between us?

Stop stopping me from moving forward.

Dear Life,
Do not forget                                                    
That even you have no existence without me.

 

 

 

Wednesday, November 07, 2012

Gloom



Life and its cruel games!
It caresses u but with claws ‘guised in fur
Pushes you to take that one next step and then mocks you, sneers at your failed efforts
Just as you try to collect yourself, its vicious laughter reeking in vanity echoes
It flips sides faster than the pulse yet somehow it is never on your side.
In this never ending duel, you give up one day to realize:
“All the world’s a stage
And all the men and women merely players…”

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Dancing Passion

Rajeev was tired. Work pressure at office was immense and he was now waiting fervently for the two "golden" days of the week when he could forget about the world, hang up his boot and relax.

Quite inevitably they were here and a bright Rajeev woke up to a bright Saturday! He happily sipped his coffee smiling all along. He endeared this lunatic self and kept singing, "my plan is to have no plan at all..du da ra da ra da ra ra..".

Just a few "plan-less" hours into the morning and his cell phone beeped.

"need shoppin for 2nyt's party. 1pm, City Square Mall, be there on time".

Dismay rushed down Rajeev's body, his smile faded as he slumped into the sofa. Reeta was at it again. She knew how badly he wanted these weekends to himself, that he hated nothing more than SHOPPING!! Shopping that too on a weekend was the most perfect imperfect recipe of disaster to Rajeev.

But he couldn’t say NO to her. They had been together for more than a year now and he knew that she had no girl-friends...that he was her be all, and end all..that he was her only friend, guide, help, philosopher, lover, alter-ego..and that she loved him. He could never disappoint her, rather he didn't want to. He didn’t want to lose another relationship. He knew how mean life had been to her and he somehow wanted to make up for it, give her everything that life had snatched away. Reeta, once in a while tried to take undue advantage of the fact, but Rajeev...well he just kept mum, never said a word lest he would hurt her.

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"Oh baby, I’m so sorry you had to step out today", Rita placed a kiss on Rajeev's cheek while entwining her fingers around his. The "Dancing Passion" she wore filled his nostrils. Many a time this sweet fragrance came floating into his dreams and that is when he missed being with HER the most.

"Why couldn’t you shop yesterday? And which damn party are you going to tonight? Can’t you wear something that you already have??" a miffed Rajeev blurted as Reeta pulled him by the arm into City Square.

"Arre baba! today is Bijoya and our TL (Team Leader) has invited us for dinner", said Reeta still tugging him along.

"That fat arse, can't he leave you alone even on weekends!"

"Arre chill baba..its Bijoya..Dussehra, remember?"

"All I know is that it’s Saturday.. And why do you have to shop, what happened to all the clothes you had?"

"The dress code is saree..you know I don’t have a single saree.."

"Sarree??  that fat arse....i swear.."

Rajeev hated Reeta's boss. Seeing Rajeev swear this way about him always made Reeta laugh. Still giggling, she managed to tug him into the saree section. With 5-6 randomly selected sarees Reeta marched into the ladies trial room, pulling Rajeev all along.

"You sit here and come when I call you, I'll try each saree and you tell me how it looks on me..OK?"

Rajeev nodded, uninterested. With this Reeta entered one of the four trial rooms that ran alongside the sofa into which Rajeev dropped. A large mirror hung on the other side reflecting the lonely trial room, the only person visible in it was a slouched and grumpy Rajeev.

He stared at the wall infront of him, his mind blank, thinking nothing but yearning to go home. Just as he glanced into his watch Reeta called, "Rajeev come, have a look.."

Quickly onto his feet, with head bowed down he moved toward the trial room and knocked on the first door. The door opened, he pushed it ajar and entered.

"What took you so long?" came a voice as he lifted his gaze. A woman's bare back welcomed it. She had let a pallu* fall carelessly down her left shoulder. Rajeev adjusted his gaze to follow the spine descend like a rivulet down a slope. Her form had curves that arched like sandunes do in deserts. Those pair of shoulders stood like a dancer’s:  well-poised and firm. A tress or two of jet black curls sprung off the bun on her head, gracefully descending down the neck and onto the blemish-free back.  Mesmerized, Rajeev at once felt drawn to her silky smooth skin.

Enticed and caught as if in a trance he moved forward trying to touch and feel and hold HER once again when suddenly, she turned!

"Where's the................"

Before she could utter another word, Rajeev covered the girl's mouth with his palm and she strangely made no effort to resist. His heart skipped a beat as he stared right into those large mysterious eyes. The warmth of her breath seemed to fill the room as her delicate lips quivered under his touch. It soothed and comforted him for what seemed like an eternity, until...

"Rajeev”

“Rajeev Where are you?”

“Rajeeeeev...."

The calls grew louder and suddenly the two felt jolted back into reality. Rajeev quickly moved his hand off her mouth, took a step behind, turned, glanced back at her and finally, left.

"Pooja are you here..." knocked a man onto Pooja's door minutes after Rajeev closed it behind him to enter the one in which Reeta waited.
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As he slept in his bed that night, "Dancing Passion" filled his senses. He began missing HER in his sleep again, HER fragrance binding him like never before. He woke up with a start! It had been two years that he had last seen her graceful form, her perfect curves, her dancing curls...until...until today...

It had been two long years since Pooja left him to marry some guy her parents had chosen. "Dancing Passion" was the perfume she wore every time they met. He didn’t know why be he always made sure that Reeta wore it too.

                                                                    *THE END*

 *pallu: the part of your saree that you drape over your shoulder